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“Don’t Chase Waterfalls, They Are Usually Hiding Rocks That Will Kill You” – Tonto Dikeh Dishes Out Relationship Advice

Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh-Churchill, took to her page to share some words of wisdom concerning relationships, people who go after looks, money and people who chase those they can’t have…tonThe mother of one wrote;

HE FORGOT ABOUT YOU.REMEMBER THAT!!! I’m not sure why but we all do it. Many beings waste years of their lives, chasing after people they can’t have, or lifestyles that aren’t sustainable, for reasons we don’t know. You can’t have a person, either they will f*ck with you, or they won’t. Nobody is out of your league, they just don’t want you in their life.

We are all human so we all make mistakes, but a mistake made twice is a choice. Try not to seek the best looking, or those with the most money, for these are superficial ideas and money doesn’t make you happy. You make you happy, so if you are in a situation with a person and you have the freedom to choose, but you are unhappy, this is your fault not theirs. Stop wasting your time. Leave the situation. You should be looking for someone who shares sympathetic vibrations.

Someone who is on your wavelength, someone who can share the same frequency as you. Everything is a vibration, positive or negative. All elements are made up of atoms. And these are made up of a nucleus, protons (positive), neutrons (no charge) and electrons (negative). Opposites attract but if someone is in a negative space, you being in a positive space, isn’t necessarily going to help them and vice versa. You choose your own happiness, as you can choose the people you are around.

(Obviously free from war, famine, poverty, drought, oppressive systems of government/religious opinions, disease etc) If you aren’t happy within yourself, you can’t be truly happy around others. Health is not just physical. I think this is why people Who know me love me, because I am happy and I love people. Don’t chase waterfalls, on the surface they appear beautiful, but they are usually hiding rocks that will kill you. #chkb #POKOBARS

HE FORGOT ABOUT YOU.REMEMBER THAT!!! I'm not sure why but we all do it. Many beings waste years of their lives, chasing after people they can't have, or lifestyles that aren't sustainable, for reasons we don't know. You can't have a person, either they will f*ck with you, or they won't. Nobody is out of your league, they just don't want you in their life. We are all human so we all make mistakes, but a mistake made twice is a choice. Try not to seek the best looking, or those with the most money, for these are superficial ideas and money doesn't make you happy. You make you happy, so if you are in a situation with a person and you have the freedom to choose, but you are unhappy, this is your fault not theirs. Stop wasting your time. Leave the situation. You should be looking for someone who shares sympathetic vibrations. Someone who is on your wavelength, someone who can share the same frequency as you. Everything is a vibration, positive or negative. All elements are made up of atoms. And these are made up of a nucleus, protons (positive), neutrons (no charge) and electrons (negative). Opposites attract but if someone is in a negative space, you being in a positive space, isn't necessarily going to help them and vice versa. You choose your own happiness, as you can choose the people you are around. (Obviously free from war, famine, poverty, drought, oppressive systems of government/religious opinions, disease etc) If you aren't happy within yourself, you can't be truly happy around others. Health is not just physical. I think this is why people Who know me love me, because I am happy and I love people. Don't chase waterfalls, on the surface they appear beautiful, but they are usually hiding rocks that will kill you. #chkb #POKOBARS

A photo posted by Mrs Tonto Dikeh-Churchill (@tontolet) on

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  • Mohammad Isah

    OK we don hear

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    Seen

  • chika bibian

    Beautiful

  • Kenny D Osonwa

    Hmmmm, Tonto talking responsibly about relationships. Nice piece.

  • kayode akinsanya

    Good one from her, thanks for the advice

  • WillieBravo

    Talking from experience I guess. Well said though.

  • Cornel Nwankwo

    We have heard
    Good advice from her

  • Good one

  • emekachilaka

    nice advice from her

  • Olovo Obinna

    Nice advice/wise words from lady tonto…what I hate especially is people who leave fake lives